So I just got out of a relationship. I’ll be straight up honest: they suck. Everyone puts their heart into it and then complains about it getting broken. I mean if someone you liked just gave you their heart and put it in your hand, don’t you think you’d feel a bit of pressure? Sure you may be all lovey dovey now, but you just gave your HEART away. To some guy or girl that gave you theirs. That’s like asking your adorable, yet clumsy, two year old cousin to hold your porcelain figurines or some fragile shit like that for you. NOOOOOO. Don’t just automatically assume you love someone and they’ll never hurt you. And don’t tell me that you aren’t still attracted to other people. I know you are. AND SO IS YOUR PARTNER. Don’t deny it. I know when you’re lying. Okay, you may say, “That’s fine. I don’t mind if he/she talks to other people. I’m not the jealous type.” YES YOU ARE???!! If your guy or girl walked up to some person and started flirting, you wouldn’t be too thrilled about it. So all I’m saying is people shouldn’t waste their times getting serious. Especially in their teens. We all know the chances of perfect happiness are basically .0000001. It may work out with this person for a lonnngggg time, but is it gonna be all smiles and laughs along the way? No. At some point you’re gonna get hurt. You know this. So stop complaining about being stupid enough to think (s)he was the one, or about how much you need a perfect guy/girl. You knew what you were getting into when it started. P.S. People suck. It’s in our nature.